Whose agenda are you living?
So often we find ourselves doing things in order to be accepted by others. We worry what people would think of us. We say things, wear things, buy things, do things, and think things because we believe they will be pleasing or acceptable to other people.
I see this all of the time in my programs. Fully grown adults filled with anxiety over their parents’ opinion of them, still trying to get mom and dad’s approval at age 40, 50, 60. Younger people blaming, gossiping, and criticizing to go along with the crowd because they don’t have a path for themselves. [Read more…]