It’s critical to understand that, ultimately, our biggest obstacles are our self-limiting beliefs. This may be the single most important idea to grapple with as we imagine the kind of life we want. It’s frequently the only thing standing between us and success.
The issue isn’t really about knowing how to do something. Everything we need to know is out there just waiting for us to pick it up. We know how to lose weight. We know how to become a millionaire. We know how to get good grades in school. We even know how to land on Mars.
The central issue is typically one of desire, focus, and discipline. Here’s a keystone question to ask yourself: “Have I decided what I want?” Don’t take this word “decided” too lightly. We either decide or we don’t decide; there is no in between. [Read more…]