I’ve talked about the importance of “deciding” and “committing.” You’ve either decided or you haven’t. You can’t be “kind of decided” or “kind of committed.” Either you are or you aren’t.
Today, let’s talk about this issue of deciding. It’s easy to say you have to decide, but what does that mean? A lot of us struggle with the process of deciding. And, in many cases, we don’t actually have much of a process at all.
How long have we bounced from idea to idea, job to job, or relationship to relationship, not really sure of what we want? How many times have we convinced ourselves that we’ve “decided” only to change direction a few days or weeks later? Months and even years can pass and we still haven’t gained significant ground. [Read more…]